A men's group that fits
“Vulnerability is the last thing I want you to see in me, but the first thing I look for in you”
Brené Brown
A safe, confidential, judgement-free circle for men who want something different from the alpha-male version of this work. Last Tuesday of the month, 90 minutes on Zoom.
What
A global community of men ready to break free from the wounded Man Box and redefine strength by treating vulnerability as a superpower. The mission is simple: a safe, confidential, judgement-free space where like-minded men can explore life’s challenges, share openly, and support one another. Traditional alpha-male or drill-sergeant groups are not for everyone — this is the other room. Gay, bi and trans men, and non-binary people, are at the heart of it.
Who
If this is you, we would love to welcome you. Gay, bi and trans men, and non-binary people — including the first time you sit in a men’s circle.
Why
Welcoming
You do not need the right words, the right look, or a history of this kind of work. Someone will help you land.
Confidential
What is said in the circle stays in the circle. You can pass on any question. Silence is allowed.
A tribe
No man should have to walk through life alone. We come back to the vulnerability we buried — we re-learn it, we reclaim it.
A different kind of men’s group
Not the traditional alpha-male or drill-sergeant format. Inclusive, welcoming, and built so you can show up as you are.
First nights, honest rooms, and the relief of not having to perform. Max can replace these starter notes in Studio with live quotes.
“I almost did not come. I am glad I did. Nobody pushed, and I did not have to perform.”
“It was the first room where I could talk as a gay man without it becoming the whole story — or being ignored.”
“Confidential, kind, and actually suitable for a first night. I booked the next one before I logged off.”
Next connection circle
The last Tuesday of every month we host a 90-minute online sharing circle on Zoom, facilitated by Max, with ongoing resources and support between sessions. First-timers are walked in gently.
Tuesday 25 August 2026 · 7:30–9:00pm UK · Zoom
Join the next circleBook your place for the next circle, or write with a question. You do not need to have it all figured out first.
Join the next circleFAQ
The Vulnerability Club® is a monthly online connection circle for gay, bi and trans men and non-binary people. It is a confidential, judgement-free sharing space — not an alpha-male or drill-sergeant men’s group, and not a dating cattle-call.
GBT+ men and non-binary people, aged 18 and over. First-timers are welcome. If you want honest conversation and a tribe that will remember your name, you are in the right room.
We meet on the last Tuesday of every month for 90 minutes on Zoom, facilitated by Max Wilson. Resources and support are available between sessions.
Use the contact form on this site to book a place on the next circle. You will get the Zoom link and a short note on how to arrive. You do not need the right words first.
Yes. 1:1 coaching and walking coaching live on Max Wilson Coaching, the sister practice site. The Club is the community room; coaching is private work with Max.